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57 • Amherstburg, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 33 - 52
Marital Status: Divorced
Professor Samy Please don’t communicate without
"We need to accept that there is no partner who would understand the whole of us, who will share all of our tastes in large and small areas. Ultimately, it is always a percentage of compatibility we will only ever achieve. I'm OK with being single in this phase of life, but open to partnership with the right.lady ."Serious,honest,and reliable
Rédwan
48 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 32 - 45
Marital Status: Divorced
Relation sérieuse pour mariage !
Homme de 48 ans Français d'origine Marocaine. Divorcé j'ai trois enfants, que j'aime et qui vivent avec moi. Si vous n'acceptez pas mes enfants passez votre chemin ! J'accepte une femme avec enfants. Je souhaite construire ma nouvelle vie avec u
Salam!
48 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 28 - 45
Marital Status: Divorced
Looking for someone special..!
I’ve been married to a wonderful woman for over 24 years now, had beautiful children and of course ups and downs like everyone else. No one is perfect. It’s been rough the past few years and now we’re unfortunately divorced. With all honesty, I’m here on this site to see if I’ll be able to once again have that feeling for someone special. Anyone real on this site..!!???
Zaid
60 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 37 - 44
Marital Status: Divorced
I am serious and Looking for my Future Wife
مرحبًا ، أنا زيد ، من كندا. اتكلم واقراء واكتب العربية بطلاقة. انا هنا ابحث عن زوجة وحبيبه المستقبل. أنا على استعداد للانتقال إلى بلد آخر خلال سنه اذا كان هناك نصيب. وضعي المالي جيد ولست بحاجة للعمل. الرجاء الاتصال فقط للجادين والراغبين للزواج. شكرا التوفيق للجميع.
Aadil
44 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 18 - 45
Marital Status: Divorced
Let's explore Islam and the world together
Assalamu Alaikum! Passionate and full of life, I’m a devout Muslim man on a journey to make the most out of life, all while helping others find their path. My days are filled with mentorship for youth and young men, where I find profound joy and purpose in guiding them to be their best selves, strengthening both their character and faith. A question I often get is about my ethnicity, and it’s something I hold close to my heart. I am proud to come from a rich tapestry of mixed ethnicities, embracing roots from the Caribbean and Latin America. My heritage is a vibrant blend of African, Indian, Amerindian (the indigenous peoples of the Caribbean), and Latino cultures, making for a unique story I am always excited to share. My friends describe me as the heartbeat of any gathering, bringing passion, energy, and a good dose of humour wherever I go. A fervent practitioner of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, I thrive on challenge and discipline, and I’m just as committed to leading a fit and healthy life. I have a deep interest in understanding the diverse ways we connect and relate to the world, often diving into the realm of personality tests to quench my curiosity. Seeking a partner who values health and fitness, enjoys meaningful conversations, long drives, and has a love for travel. A woman who is empathetic, caring, and sees the beauty in the highs and lows of life, always looking for the silver lining and believing in the goodness of people. If you’re someone who appreciates a drama-free life, cherishes meaningful connections, and is ready for laughter and thoughtful discussions, I would be delighted to get to know you. Together, let's uphold our values, navigate the journey of life, and create a joyful and fulfilling chapter rooted in faith, respect, and our rich cultural heritage.
Regis
74 • Rimouski, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 30 - 65
Marital Status: Divorced
Régis Roussel
I am a positive man who loves life, adventure and animals. I love the outdoors, hunting and fishing. My life is to be in action. Hi I am valiant and I like organized and well done things. I am a man of challenges and hearts. Family life is paramount to me and I like to be surrounded by people I love. I appreciate the good table.If you are ready to follow me in my many projects communicates with me, we are likely to be happy.
Addi
44 • Amherstburg, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 23 - 38
Marital Status: Divorced
Azul igaddioussially
Lover of knowledge, Honest, kind and appreciate integrity. Family oriented (as we goddamn and should everyone be ... aaaaah ^^j) Be selfish when alone building one´s self, then share it with the one you care for. Respect and fun and even manipulation as fun, all inside the integrity frame, not the other way around.
Yaser
54 • Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Seeking: Female 25 - 50
Marital Status: Divorced
Must Love Laughing at My Jokes Even the Bad ones!
I am a man who wears his heart on his sleeve, always honest, gentle, and kind. I find joy in smiling, in giving and receiving affection, and in sharing the warmth of true connection. Open and communicative, I am unafraid to be my authentic self with you. With a heart full of faith, I aspire to grow within my deen, embracing life's journey with optimism, passion, and a sense of fun. I love to laugh and make the most out of every moment. Those who know me say I bring a hopeful and passionate spirit to everything I do, always ready to sprinkle a little joy and adventure along the way.
محمد
35 • Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada
Seeking: Female 21 - 40
Marital Status: Divorced
محمد ولد باب
I know the people of prayer and purity and the affairs of Islam and I learn two days seeking knowledge in my path God protect you my brothers in Allah who loves Allah and his Messenger who fears Allah where he was and Allah is my Prophet. 14313889948+ May Allah reward you with good deeds, peace be upon you and the mercy of Allah and his blessings your brother Muhammad from Canada
Omar
41 • Calgary, Alberta, Canada
Seeking: Female 30 - 38
Marital Status: Divorced
On the journey towards being a better human.
Living in the lively city of Calgary, Canada, I am a confident and independent man who values hard work and responsibility. I seek a meaningful connection built on mutual love and sincerity. As a devoted father, my three sons are my greatest pride—ea
Adeel
46 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 23 - 49
Marital Status: Divorced
Looking for a wife.
I am from Islamabad, currently living in Canada. I am in here since the year 2000. . I am an easy going person love to travel, cook, camping etc.  I believe in respecting and supporting my partner. I am a religious person, do my wajibaat and expect same from my other Half. 
Osama
44 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 25 - 37
Marital Status: Divorced
Canadians ONLY, please!!
I'm a proud Sunni Muslim of Salafi leanings. Was always a practicing Muslim who surrounded himself with good company. I enjoy reading on Islam, Arabic, history, religions, conspiracies, and watching documentaries on such topics or sci-fi movies (above all). I have lots of books in both languages, and I view this world from an Islamic perspective PURELY. I never smoked anything, esp. so-called "shisha" and I'm NOT into playing those cards (which Arabs guys are infamous for).
Yaman
70 • Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 60 - 74
Marital Status: Divorced
I am Yayoyogi and dwell in town of Yahou-kom
I am a retired professional and a businessman. i am artsy, love decorating, gardening, outdoors,,,,and now I am adding one item of chasing woman with wisdom and good thinking ! I believe I have good thinking, am romantic and humourous and have good
GB
48 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 32 - 49
Marital Status: Divorced
Looking for my forever partner
Honest, caring, funny, Chivalrous... Enjoy long walks, sitting by the fire, love to cook, traveling the world, going on road trips and listening to music & podcasts. Love the outdoors, hiking, walking, comedy shows, movies, trying new restaurants
Toufik
60 • Quebec, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 33 - 53
Marital Status: Divorced
Homme, seul, en bonne santé, fidèle.
Life is worth nothing, but nothing is worth life, why complicate existence, when one is oneself, and simple. I will always keep hope, which I believe, that somewhere is the ideal person, a sincere and simple woman, all natural, to whom luis owes the merit of sharing with her, not only mutual respect, but together our paths cross and converge for a better future, full of joy and happiness.
Saleh
40 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 40 - 57
Marital Status: Divorced
nice man looking for a nice woman
Hi it's hard to talk about my self but i will try, i'm a nice man,honest,good looking,working hard,i like most of sorts epecialy Soccor,swimming,walking,gym,travelling,sports cars,and a lot more,life is too short,hoping to find my other half to enjoy
Atlas
35 • Kitchener, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 30 - 55
Marital Status: Divorced
Seeking a new life partner
I am here to meet some one for marriage. my actual age is 52 years now. i live in Canada... Well I tell you this.I am honest, romantic and hardworking. You may ask me anything, but of course I answer. And a good tip if you re interested in getting to know me . Bless you all SALAM
Muhammad
53 • Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female
Marital Status: Divorced
“Until the day well known”
Assalamu alaykum, Thank you for taking time to read my profile. Here we go, a little bit about myself, I’m Indian, born (1971) and raised in England. Both of my parents are from Punjab, north India. I’m now 52, but I have been told I don’t look it😉I speak English, Punjabi and a little bit of Hindi ONLY. I have 1 sister and 2 brothers who are all younger than me living in England. I have two boys, 22 and 23 years old both living in England with their mother. I’m divorced and living in Vancouver, Canada since 2013. “Alhamdulillah” reverted to Islam in October 2020. For work I’m a caregiver, I♥️what I do, helping young children rebuild their confidence and self-esteem after they’ve been abused and abandoned by their families. I also have a great business selling health and beauty products online. My family and friends would describe me as fun, easy going, health conscious, confident, honest, hard working, responsible and God fearing person. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ ‎السلام عليكم، ‎ شكرا لك على الوقت لقراءة ملف التعريف الخاص بي. ‎ ها نحن ذا ، قليلا عن نفسي ، أنا هندي ، لكنني ولدت (1971) ونشأت في إنجلترا. والداي من ولاية البنجاب شمال الهند. أبلغ من العمر الآن 52 عامًا ، ولكن قيل لي إنني لا أنظر إليها. أنا أتحدث الإنجليزية والبنجابية وقليلًا من الهندية فقط. لدي أخت وشقيقان جميعهم أصغر مني يعيشون في إنجلترا. لدي ولدان يبلغان من العمر 22 و 23 عامًا يعيشان في إنجلترا مع والدتهما. أنا مطلقة وأعيش في فانكوفر ، كندا منذ عام 2013. "الحمد لله" عاد إلى الإسلام في أكتوبر 2020. ‎ بالنسبة للعمل ، أنا مقدم رعاية ، ♥ ️ ما أفعله ، أساعد الأطفال الصغار على إعادة بناء ثقتهم واحترامهم لذاتهم بعد تعرضهم لسوء المعاملة والتخلي عن أسرهم. ‎ لدي أيضًا نشاط تجاري كبير في بيع منتجات الصحة والجمال عبر الإنترنت. ‎ وصف لي عائلتي وأصدقائي بالمتعة ويسير الصحة الواعية والثقة والصادقة والعمل الجاد والمسؤول خوفا من الله. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Assalamu alaykum, Merci d'avoir pris le temps de lire mon profil. Voilà, un peu sur moi, je suis indien, mais je suis né (1971) et j'ai grandi en Angleterre. Mes deux parents sont originaires du Pendjab, au nord de l'Inde. J'ai maintenant 52 ans, mais on m'a dit que je n'en avais pas l'air😉Je parle anglais, pendjabi et un peu d'hindi UNIQUEMENT. J'ai 1 soeur et 2 frères qui sont tous plus jeunes que moi vivant en Angleterre. J'ai deux garçons de 22 et 23 ans qui vivent tous les deux en Angleterre avec leur mère. Je suis divorcé et je vis à Vancouver, au Canada, depuis 2013. "Alhamdulillah" est revenu à l'islam en octobre 2020. Pour le travail, je suis un soignant, je♥️ ce que je fais, aider les jeunes enfants à reconstruire leur confiance et leur estime de soi après avoir été maltraités et abandonnés par leurs familles. J'ai également une excellente entreprise de vente de produits de santé et de beauté en ligne. Ma famille et mes amis me décriraient comme une personne amusante, facile à vivre, soucieuse de sa santé, confiante, honnête, travailleuse, responsable et craignant Dieu. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Salaam, Gracias por tomarse el tiempo para leer mi perfil. Aquí vamos, un poco sobre mí, soy indio, pero nací (1971) y me crié en Inglaterra. Mis padres son de Punjab, al norte de la India. Ahora tengo 52 años, pero me han dicho que no lo parezco 😉Hablo inglés, punjabi y un poco de hindi SOLAMENTE. Tengo 1 hermana y 2 hermanos, todos menores que yo, que viven en Inglaterra. Tengo dos hijos de 22 y 23 años que viven en Inglaterra con su madre. Estoy divorciado y vivo en Vancouver, Canadá desde 2013. “Alhamdulillah” volvió al Islam en octubre de 2020. Por trabajo soy cuidadora, lo que hago es ayudar a niños pequeños a recuperar su confianza y autoestima después de haber sido abusados ​​y abandonados por sus familias. También tengo un gran negocio vendiendo productos de salud y belleza en línea. Mi familia y amigos me describirían como una persona divertida, tranquila, consciente de la salud, segura de sí misma, honesta, trabajadora, responsable y temerosa de Dios.
Mohamed
38 • London, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 21 - 37
Marital Status: Divorced
Marriage Only
I'm kind, flexible, and most of all got a lot of sense of humor. Dheen is important to me. I'm a practicing Muslima trying every day to be a good Muslim. I'm not a man of culture and I adapt to anything as long as it's halal and acceptable. Not living with culture but accepting Islam. I'm very easygoing, have No anger, No Drama, and am Honest in communication, family is everything to me. I love cooking, I cook my food and many said it's delicious. As a hobby, I try all kinds of dishes. My dream is to open a restaurant one day, just to serve my food and make people happy. hh
mark
55 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 25 - 43
Marital Status: Divorced
A real gentleman
I live in Mississauga and work in downtown Toronto.My correct age is 59 and I don't want to change it on my profile and submit documentation, although my pics are recent. I have a great job and happy life. I like travelling, dining out, sports cars, fishing, boating, camping with friends and day trips. I like to treat a lady special, and I am very devoted and family oriented.
Ahmed
60 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Marital Status: Divorced
Romantic loving n caring
Super romantic 🌷Lived most of my life abroad in Europe and North America. Traveled and lived 40 years of my life in tens of countries .Love to know different cultures , food/cuisines, languages, musics, people , hobbies, etc so I do wish if I can travel the world 🙏 I used to write poem and had/ have many hobbies, like reading, writing, playing music, Karate , Kung fu, swimming, snorkelling, diving ,tennis, volleyball, watching movies. Car racing , sharp shooting, photography, cooking, handyman and much more I am extremely hungry for knowledge always So I have been told that I am very knowledgeable In many areas of knowledge and religion teaching is one those areas too I have been invited hundreds of times to lead Jomaa prayers for the past 30 years in many mosques in many countries . May Allah accept 🤲 Allah knows that I am so little , but others are generous enough to over complement me 🤲🌹 alhamdu lellah 🙏 Also I follow Sunnat ALNABY Salla Allah Alaihi wa Sallam at home by cooking n cleaning n doing dishes fixing stuff...etc Also my photos on my profile are all in year 2019 so I am not trying to sell you my past 😊 as it will not be honest at my end😀😇🌷
AzizNasriddinov
46 • Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Seeking: Female 27 - 37
Marital Status: Divorced
Please read my profile
If you speak English we can start chatting. I don't speak Arabic. You must know if you are ok to settle a family with someone from different culture , with someone who doesn't speak your language. I work in healthcare in Canada. I am studying my
Aamir
42 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 18 - 37
Marital Status: Divorced
Looking for Marraige
35 years old male living in Canada for the past 12 years. Graduated with a bachelors degree in Computer Engineering from McGill University and working as a software tester for a reputable telecommunication company. Please get in touch if you want to know more.
Zwine
53 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 35 - 60
Marital Status: Divorced
SUPER HANOUNE ZWINE HAHAHAH
I LIKE TO LAUGH AND HAVE A GOOD TIME TRAVELING AND EVERYTHING I am on promotion these days then WELCOME +واحد خمسة واحد اربعة تسعة تسعة تسعة اربعة ثلاثة اثنان اثنان PLEASE WOMEN WHO PUT PICTURES OF WOMEN BEAUTIFUL STOLEN PHOTOS OF OTHER MEMBERS OR GOOGLE PASS YOUR TURN
Tunisian
63 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 40 - 52
Marital Status: Divorced
AnaBastannek
Un tunisien cherche une femme pour se marier, j'aime voyager, cuisiner, faire la fête avec des amis, ana globalia7, la visite, la musique, faire les sports, les plages, les arts, les musées, l'histoire, je préfère les femmes avec le signe zodique Poissons ou Gémeaux. Merci à tous.----------
lovely
55 • Hawkesbury, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 25 - 38
Marital Status: Divorced
i am respact aal religiones only one thaught
me love aal thaught and thiks,.,.,.,.,.u love with god and fix every thiks===========================================================================================================================================================================================
Karem
61 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 29 - 42
Marital Status: Divorced
Eagle
I'm simple, educated and professional person. Have a sense of humor. Generous and open minded. Responsible, serious, honest, self-confidence. Family oriented, ambition, like learning new things and curious. Positive attitude, optimistic, strong determination. Like travel, eat good food, movies, music, reading , writing, and sport. IS ENOUGH FOR NOW!!! I'LL TELL YOU MORE IF YOU ARE INTERESTED....... Thanks
Rashid
52 • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 22 - 40
Marital Status: Divorced
Seeking a good life with a good wife
I am religious, God fearing, confident, honest, good looking, sensible, caring and fun loving person. I perform salaah, recite and listen Quran. during my leisure time, I enjoy watching TV and movies, I like to go on long drive and fishing. I am very optimistic about life and always belief that ALLAH KARIM will help us and guide us if we ask his favor with utmost belief in the Almighty. I am moderate person when it comes to socilizing. I am looking for some one who has belives in open communication and values religion and culture.
T
58 • Montreal, Quebec, Canada
Seeking: Female 45 - 59
Marital Status: Divorced
Intelligent and motivated
I'm a person looking for a serious relationship with a very nice lady who's also romantic, intellectual who can listen. I am someone simple intelligent and very respectful. I'm looking for the same. I enjoy reading, sports, movies, Traveling ...
HeightenedSenses
46 • Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 36 - 41
Marital Status: Divorced
Does Anybody Even Read Anymore!!
Important notes to begin with: It's really disheartening and gravely disappointing that nobody actually puts in the effort to even read the very first few lines. What's even more disheartening and disappointing...the fact that this is supposed to be a Muslim website...dedicated for Muslims...where you would expect a decent Muslim environment!! Please...At least Read the Notes Section Carefully before Initiating Any Contact...Thank you! **NOTE: I would like to thank all those who showed interest in my profile or sent private messages. However, I urge you to kindly wait until the profile is complete in its entirety before deciding to initiate any contact as it is still a work in progress.** **NOTE: Please understand that my search is limited only to within Canada. I cannot sponsor anyone from any other country. Thank You! Since I’m still receiving messages and interests from outside Canada, I would like to elaborate more on this point. Sponsoring someone from outside Canada is not as easy as hooking up online and deciding to get married. It’s a long and tedious process that can take years, depending on each individual case. Part of the sponsoring process is meeting certain requirements and conditions, with respect to the person who is the “sponsor”. Among those conditions, is meeting certain financial requirements. I’m a person of “modest means”. I may have enough to get by through life, but certainly not enough to meet the immigration department’s financial requirements to sponsor anyone. So, regardless of how special you are, or even If you have a genuine interest in my profile…I simply cannot afford it. I sincerely hope this point is clear to everyone. Thank you! ** **NOTE: Before messaging or clicking the heart button…Please be mindful of, and respect the age difference. If we’re at different stages of our lives, we will have different mindsets, different visions, different interests and definitely different energies. So, while it’s flattering to receive messages and likes from a 21 years old sister…Do you honestly believe that it can actually work?…that we can truly connect intellectually and emotionally in a healthy relationship?? The same, I believe, applies on the other extreme of the age range… (Kindly understand that I’m saying this with the utmost respect and with absolutely no intentions to offend anyone) ** **NOTE: I took it upon myself to verify my profile, so as to put your heart and mind at ease. This way, when you visit my profile, you can rest assured that you are visiting a real profile...not a fake one. In return, before contacting me, I would really appreciate if you can verify your profile as well. I've lost count of how many times I visit a profile with a profile photo...only to find the very same photo used in another profile of someone who lives in a completely different continent!! Not to mention: fake information, physical features that don't match the profile photos, or photos of popular celebrities? Seriously?? You couldn’t be any more obvious??! ** **NOTE: If I don’t respond to your message, please don’t take it personally. Please understand that I get a lot of messages in my inbox. I cannot possibly reply to all of them. Please also understand that I do have a life outside this website. Since, unfortunately, not all members respect my wishes, some of the messages are set to be automatically filtered out according to some criteria (Country of residence, age range, religious values…etc.). So, if I don’t respond to your message: - It was either filtered out because it doesn’t meet the criteria I’m looking for (especially if you live halfway across the planet) OR - You don’t have the “verified” badge on your profile OR - You don't give me any indication that you actually read my profile OR - I’m, unfortunately, busy with other matters in my life outside this website…like normal human beings, OR - My paid membership has expired OR - After visiting your profile and praying Istikharah, it didn’t feel like a good fit. In any case, I wish you all the best! On a related note, when you decide to text me, Please Don’t just send me the generic default messages suggested by the website. Messages that say: "Hi", "Hello", "Salut", or shorter form "Slt", "ca va" or shorter form "cv"...these are not really meaningful messages. Please try to put some effort into it and make it have a meaning. Please take the time to choose your words carefully. Words have power…Try to respect that power...Thank You! ** **NOTE: This is gonna be a long reading exercise...A really long one (may take up to an hour to finish reading, depending on your reading speed). Almost all the sections of the profile are thoroughly filled out with information. So, Brace yourself! As for the respected members who complain about the length of the profile: If you are taking this matter seriously enough, wouldn't you want to know as much as possible about your potential partner?? Would you rather step into a hollow profile with little to no information? Are you shopping for a potential partner at the fast food lane?!! If you cannot afford to invest an hour to get to know a potential partner...One would have to wonder, how would you be willing to spend the rest of your living hours, days and years with that partner...or any partner for that matter. With all due respect, Nothing is forcing you to keep reading. You can simply click the "back" button and choose another profile, right? Thank you! ** **End of Notes Section** The actual profile begins here: Walking through this life (DONIA) with the eyes of the afterlife (ALAKHERA), I strive to achieve and maintain the perfect balance between my nature as a human being with earthly demands and needs, and my inner spiritual thirst to its Creator. Guided by the Holy Quran and blessed Sunnah to enlighten my way, my DONIA serves my AKHERA while not forgetting my share of permissible times of joy, pleasure and happiness. Throughout the years of my life, I have come to a better understanding of myself and my personality. I have come to realize that I’m an introvert. I might, in fact, say that I’m chronically introverted. If you’ve ever heard or read about the Myers-Briggs type indicator, I would fall under the INFP personality type. If you’ve also ever heard of Keirsey Temperament Sorter, I would fall under the “Healer” role variant. I will try to explain more in the "More about me" section, but the highly extroverted nature of today’s world doesn’t appeal to me. It doesn’t attract me. Dealing with people drains me emotionally and leaves me exhausted. Many a time, I have wondered how my life would have been like, had I been born at a different time. A time when the world was a bit quieter, before things got so amplified. We live in a time of constant distraction. A punishing drumbeat of constant, harsh and discordant input and stimuli, that seeps right into our souls. I have this dire Need to have some personal space for thinking, contemplation and reflection. I treasure those late hours of the night and early hours of the day. The late hours of the night are great times while the world is still sleeping and you are awake communicating with God. The early hours of the day are great times to communicate with nature. And as the world wakes up and the day starts, the joy diminishes and reality hits back and then you’re just a cog in the wheel of life. In this wheel ...as an introvert (esp. chronic cases of INFP), one of the many things that characterize you ...you are an observant. When you are an introvert observant, you tend to view the world around you through different eyes...the eyes of an outsider. Not only that, you also tend to view the world at a slower and encompassing pace. You view the world at a slower frame rate. And as much as you can see beauty...As much as your senses intoxicatedly sing and dance in joy and pleasure, from the beautiful tapestry of God’s exquisite and impeccable creation…the warmth from the sun rays that blankets your skin…the gentle and salty breeze of the ocean with the harmonious beats from the sound of the waves bumping into giant rocks by the shore…the smell of the grass, wet on its cheeks after a rainy day…the multitude of birds of different species singing in perfect harmony…Everything around us is in a divine symphony of perfection. And while your senses are still in this intoxicated and joyful state, you subconsciously stretch your imaginary hands and try and grab a piece of this beauty, or even merely touch it…only to be awaken by a slap on your face, called Reality…you look at your hands, only to find yourself holding the ashes of what used to be, the ashes of what could have been. Because, with all this beauty…on the other hand... adding humans into the picture…the things that you see and hear... the things that are revealed to you as an INFP...the ugliness committed with the human hands...how ugly and cruel humans treat each other nowadays…the degradation of everything that is of value...the degradation of everything that is moral and ethical...that hurts!! I remember a quote by the Russian Novelist Fyodor Dostoyevsky: “People speak sometimes about the "bestial" cruelty of man, but that is terribly unjust and offensive to beasts, no animal could ever be so cruel as a man, so artfully, so artistically cruel.” Allah says in the Quran: (Chapter 7, Verse 56) وَلَا تُفْسِدُوا فِي الْأَرْضِ بَعْدَ إِصْلَاحِهَا وَادْعُوهُ خَوْفًا وَطَمَعًا ۚ إِنَّ رَحْمَتَ اللَّهِ قَرِيبٌ مِنَ الْمُحْسِنِينَ Translation: (7:56) "And cause not corruption upon the earth after its reformation. And invoke Him in fear and aspiration. Indeed, the mercy of Allah is near to the doers of good." And yet, we seem to only be more insistent, determined and adamant on the corruption… in all its different forms!! I have been through different trials and tests. I would like to think they were meant for my own good. To help purify me, awaken me (sorta like Neo’s awakening in the movie" Matrix"); unchain me from all attachments to this short narrow-scoped life, show me what this life (DONIA) is really like. I would like to think of it as God’s messages making his presence known, guiding me to aim for and work harder towards the better, and more important afterlife (AKHERA). As God promised in the Quran at the beginning of Chapter 29, verses 2 and 3: أَحَسِبَ النَّاسُ أَن يُتْرَكُوا أَن يَقُولُوا آمَنَّا وَهُمْ لا يُفْتَنُونَ (2) وَلَقَدْ فَتَنَّا الَّذِينَ مِن قَبْلِهِمْ فَلَيَعْلَمَنَّ اللَّهُ الَّذِينَ صَدَقُوا وَلَيَعْلَمَنَّ الْكَاذِبِينَ(3) Translation: Do the people think that they will be left to say, "We believe" and they will not be tried?(Verse 2) And We have certainly tried those before them, and Allah will surely make evident those who are truthful, and He will surely make evident the liars (Verse 3) I’ve been tried in my career. I’ve been tried in my previous marriages. I’ve been tried with my children. And I’ve been tried in my health. “It’s been a hard road...the road I’m travelling on” (Tracy Chapman "At this point in my life") On that road, I'm looking more for companionship rather than a typical marriage. But make no mistake, my pursuit of finding a companion is not one out of desperation. I’m equally happy and delighted in my solitude. I'm equally happy and delighted in my relationship with Allah (Alhamdolellah). In Allah, there is compensation for everything else...and in other than Allah, there is no compensation for His Almighty. في الله عوض عن كل شيء و ليس عن الله عوض في أي شيء But, having a companion by your side tends to make those hours in the wheel of life mentioned above less ugly, it makes them more tolerable. It’s a blessing to be awakened, but not to be awakened alone...in a world that’s drowning in a deep coma. Since early in my life I have been struggling with finding the right career path that fits me and fits my personality. As a kid at school, I was that cute, yet, odd little boy with eye glasses sitting at the back. The odd kid whom his being left-handed…added even more to his oddness among his peers. The odd kid whom, when called upon to answer a question, and despite knowing the right answer most of the time, would deliberately give the wrong answer…just to avoid being in the spotlight. That odd kid who puzzled most of his teachers…when class participation doesn’t match with his performance in tests, final exams and final grades. The kid that didn’t have too many friends at school but was lucky enough to have my older siblings attend the same school…working as a protective shield around me. As I grew up and it was time to go to college, I got stuck in the path to get an Engineering degree due to some family and cultural pressure (in addition to my fondness of Mathematics), only to realize it wasn’t really what makes me tick. Along that journey, I went through my first marriage which resulted in two beautiful children, But only to find out that I was just a step in someone else’s ladder. I was only a tool for her (my first ex-wife) to get to Canada and have Canadian children. I once read that “Being strong doesn’t always mean standing your ground and fighting your battles…Sometimes, just summoning the courage to walk away with your head held high and your pride intact…is the greatest show of strength”… ...and that’s what I did. I didn’t fight any battles. I didn’t stand in any courts. I didn’t fight for custody or even visitation hours…I just let her go. Few grieving years later, I met a wonderful single mother whom, by the grace and the will of Allah, was bestowed the greatest gift of reverting to Islam. Being from two different backgrounds, we had a great and exciting life together and I thought I couldn’t be happier. Yet again, that didn’t come without a thorn in the flesh. Despite how great she was, she had this weakness towards her children. I was always viewed as the bad guy, while I only had the purest intentions towards them. I treated them like my own and tried to find in them my long-lost love to my own children, who were taken away from me. And even though her studies in Psychology (she was a trained Psychologist in her home country, Brazil) helped her a lot in understanding, analyzing and absorbing the depths of my personality, they seemed to fall short in fixing her own weakness in front of her children. Though unwilling to believe in the obvious, It was clear to both of us that, unfortunately, we have reached a dead end. Along with that, hardly having a chance to catch a breath...came another trial, another test, only this time it was in my health. I had a thyroid problem that was easily treatable but during the onset of the problem I started losing some hair and it started thinning. Raising those concerns to a dermatologist, he prescribed a medication that had some nasty side effects (you can search “Propecia side effects” on Google). Those side effects came into the most delicate of all matters in a married man’s life but, thankfully Alhamdolellah, with proper medication, I was, and still, capable of leading a normal life. This may only be a glimpse of my life, but it’s hard to write down everything in the limited space offered by the website. That, I believe, would need a big thick book with multiple chapters. As a matter of fact, I can’t tell you how many times I have been encouraged by the few friends I have in my circle of trust and who have been a part of different events in my life, to actually sit down and take up that project seriously…to actually write a book! Or at least carry a notebook and note down the countless incidents and events as they unfold! They seem to believe that writing, somehow, comes easy to me… and that I may have an interesting story to tell. At the time…the way they say it…it sounds tempting…but I know myself…it just wouldn’t work for me. In this glimpse of my life I shared above, I tried to be honest and truthful as much as I could. I believe in honesty being the best policy. I believe in honesty being an obligation because on the day of judgement when I stand before Allah, when I am held accountable to all what I have done during my time in this life, when the Almighty questions me…I pray I have all the right answers. To be continued... **UPDATE: Due to the ever changing economy, I will be going back to school. That's why I changed my employment status to "Student". I find it an obligation to put accurate information as much as possible so as to save you the pain of making decisions based on false information.** **UPDATE (2): In keeping with the obligation to post only accurate information, and due to the current circumstances with the Corona virus, School plans had to be postponed for the time being. To elaborate more on this point: I'm currently not in a position to take any serious steps. This will have to wait until, en shaa Allah, I finish studying and, by the will of Allah, secure a decent job. If you are in a rush to take serious steps right away, I am afraid I may not be a suitable candidate for you. Thank you for understanding. ** **Update (3): Please understand that I’m currently not residing in Canada. To clarify: Just shortly before the Corona virus took over the world by surprise, I decided to take a break from everything and travel back to my home country and spend some time with my family. Little did I know what fate had in store for us…and with all the lockdowns and travel bans…I am unable to travel back to Canada for the foreseeable future. Alhamdolellah for everything. I trust that Allah only plans what is best for us.** **UPDATE (4): Clarification regarding the answer to the “Want more children?” question: Having a child, is undeniably a great gift and bounty from Allah. You see every day people going to great lengths to achieve such a dream and be granted such a gift. But for those who have never been through the experience… Having a child is a very demanding and taxing and seemingly permanent, 24/7/365 full-time job… A job without a retirement plan in sight. The demanding and taxing part is at all levels (emotionally, physically and, of course, financially). I strongly believe that the financial part shouldn’t be a concern, as Allah is the ultimate and only Provider. Every single soul brought to this world…they come with their provision package from Allah. Allah says in the Quran: (Chapter 11, Verse 6) وَمَا مِن دَابَّةٍ فِي الْأَرْضِ إِلَّا عَلَى اللَّهِ رِزْقُهَا وَيَعْلَمُ مُسْتَقَرَّهَا وَمُسْتَوْدَعَهَا ۚ كُلٌّ فِي كِتَابٍ مُّبِينٍ Translation: And there is no creature on earth but that upon Allah is its provision, and He knows its place of dwelling and place of storage. All is in a clear register. And in (Chapter 20, Verse 132): وَأْمُرْ أَهْلَكَ بِالصَّلَاةِ وَاصْطَبِرْ عَلَيْهَا ۖ لَا نَسْأَلُكَ رِزْقًا ۖ نَّحْنُ نَرْزُقُكَ ۗ وَالْعَاقِبَةُ لِلتَّقْوَىٰ (132 Translation (132) And enjoin prayer upon your family [and people] and be steadfast therein. We ask you not for provision; We provide for you, and the [best] outcome is for [those of] righteousness. And in (Chapter 51, Verse 5): إِنَّ اللَّهَ هُوَ الرَّزَّاقُ ذُو الْقُوَّةِ الْمَتِينُ (58 Translation: (58) Indeed, it is Allah who is the [continual] Provider, the firm possessor of strength. The parents are just the tools that Allah uses to deliver such provisions. Same like my parents did to me and your parents did to you. However, and while it’s instinctive to crave and desire having a child, not everyone is equipped or ready to be a parent at all times or at the different stages of their lives. Having a child…it changes the whole layout of your life. You willingly, happily and selflessly put your life on hold, indefinitely, on an abandoned shelf somewhere… somewhere that you may even forget. And while having a child can bring you joy and happiness, despite all the sacrifices and the selfless role you play…As much joy it can bring...As much as they can melt your heart … as much as it can totally rip the very same heart apart when, God Forbid, things don’t go well and they’re taken away from you. As I mentioned before I, unfortunately, have been through this before in my first marriage and my children were taken away from me. The scars in my heart are still there...they haven't healed yet! At this stage of my life, as I mentioned before, I'm looking more for companionship rather than a typical marriage. I would like to invest the time and the energy, spared by not having a child, to build and establish a greater, stronger and deeper bond with my companion. Have the opportunity and the time and the energy to explore each other…our personalities…what makes us who we are. I would also like us to be able to: In terms of Faith and Belief and Emaan and our efforts towards Akhera: - Increase our knowledge about this beautiful religion together. - attend lectures at the mosque or even online together. - Study together and delve deeper into Quran and Sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him). - Try our best to live according to what we learn from the Quran and Sunnah and put into practice. In terms of Donia: (If we can afford it) - Be able to save some money to travel somewhere new together. - Take a course where we can find a mutual interest, or even a whole diploma together. - Learn a new language together. - Take up martial arts classes together. - And more… (but hopefully you get the idea) However, even with all our best laid-out plans…Allah is the best Planner…and only his will on earth shall prevail. If it’s meant to happen, to have a child (despite any other plans in mind) …Well, who are we to refuse Allah’s gift to us?? And who knows? That child might be the real factor that actually builds and strengthens that bond between us. That child, he or she, can grow up and be destined to be a great addition to the society and the world. So, that’s why my answer to the “want more children?” is “Not Sure”. It’s not a definite “Yes” or a definite “No”. I really hope this point is clear for everyone. Thank you! ** **UPDATE (5): I have been asked by some members to describe what Islam means to me? While I’m by no means an angel walking this earth, I would still like to think that Islam is what shapes who I am. This greatest gift and bounty from Allah the Almighty that he generously bestowed upon us. Islam is in the air I breathe...in the water I drink...in the food I eat. It runs in my blood. Allah…the afterlife...the first thought in my mind when I wake up and the last thought before going to bed. It’s also the thought I have in the middle of the night when I am tossing and turning and cannot sleep. Islam to me is beyond the five pillars (Shahadah, Praying, fasting Ramadan, giving Zakat, or performing Hajj (if possible)). Islam is what shapes my moral and ethical compass. Islam is having a live conscience and a live filter to every single action (Will doing this be pleasing to Allah or not?). Islam is what shaped my profile the way it is...being honest, upfront and straightforward. Islam is seeking knowledge about what is halal and what is haram. Islam is about knowing why Allah created us, what awaits us after this life, in the grave and on the day of judgement. Islam is in every transaction of the day, be it big or small. Islam is in how I treat my neighbors. Islam is when I go shopping, when I smile at people, when I hold the door for somebody. Islam is in how I drive my car, letting you pass me first, giving up my parking spot for the elderly or a mother with her children or a pregnant woman... choosing to park further away and walk. Islam is when I remove harm out of people’s way. Islam is in my conversation when I talk to people. Islam is while humbly cruising through this DONIA, constantly reminding myself to look at the less fortunate...that despite my struggles and trials, there's always someone else who have it worse...that for any given day, as long as I'm in good health, have a safe shelter, have enough food and enough means to support myself and whoever in my care...then I'm among the richest of the rich for that day...the rest is just glitter and tinsel...the rest is just confetti...and Allah, who provided me for that day, is capable to provide for me tomorrow. Islam is also in considering every morning I wake up, still breathing and am capable of getting out of bed, to be another gift from Allah...another chance for a new beginning with Allah. Islam, therefore, is also in constantly reminding myself to practice gratitude and be among the few whom Allah mentioned in Chapter 34, verse 13: وَقَلِيلٌ مِّنْ عِبَادِيَ الشَّكُورُ (Translation: And few among my servants are grateful). Islam is in my reflections and contemplation of the conscious world around me. Islam is living this life, knowing with absolute certainty, that there will come a day when the inevitable visits to finally release my soul and take it on its ethereal and final journey...knowing that at that final moment...all this life since my birth, through all the stages, the successes and failures, the ups and downs, the accomplishments and disappointments, the struggles and trials...even the good times and heartaches...all this will be just like looking back from a window, at an infinitesimal grain of sand on a sandy beach, while seated in an airplane taking off and leaving the ground...All what remains is the luggage I took with me ... the luggage that only contains my good deeds during that infinitesimal lifetime I had on this earth. But, I’m still a human being…I have my shortcomings…I have my demons. With the help of Allah, I try as hard as I can to work on those shortcomings…With the help of Allah, I keep those demons at bay on a leash. ** ** **UPDATE (6): There’s been quite a number of curious messages asking where I’m originally from. I promise you, I come from planet Earth…I’m not an alien!! I’m not sure why that would be a concern. If you are worried that there maybe some inherited misconceptions regarding marriage or treating women or any other, unfortunately, negative stereotypes attached to certain cultures or backgrounds…I assure you that’s not the case. As I mentioned in my answer to other curious messages regarding what Islam means to me…My only reference is: Quran and Sunnah. The place where I was born…is just that…a place where Allah destined I would be born. This information I will share with whom Allah decides that we have a serious conversation. What I can share is that: I was blessed to be born in a Muslim country to Muslim parents and grew up in a Muslim environment. The notion of Ethnicity, Nationalism, pride of belonging to certain country or culture…don’t mean much to me. The years I lived where, what you call, I am “originally from” and before moving to Canada…I never felt like I belonged. I always felt like I’m a guest or a tourist who, sooner or later, will have to leave. Allah says in the Quran: (Chapter 55, Verse 10) وَٱلْأَرْضَ وَضَعَهَا لِلْأَنَامِ Translation: He laid out the earth for all beings. It’s humans that came up with these concepts of countries and nations, while It’s The whole earth for all beings. Hence, I come from planet Earth! ** ** UPDATE (7): It doesn’t give me any pleasure to have to write any of this, but after some unpleasant experience, I find it necessary: While I sincerely appreciate that you might be interested in my profile, please understand that it doesn’t necessarily mean that, in return, I have an obligation to reciprocate. Even if you think that your profile fits the listed preliminary criteria I’m looking for (Country of residence, age range…etc.) …there are many other factors to consider. There’s no need to be rude about it…There’s no need for patronizing or condescending behaviour or projecting your insecurities on me…especially when I reply back and, politely and respectfully, apologize for not reciprocating the interest…even when I think I don’t have the obligation to do so. You know…I can be rude too…I can be acerbic...but Allah says in the Quran (Chapter 25, verse 63): وَعِبَادُ الرَّحْمَٰنِ الَّذِينَ يَمْشُونَ عَلَى الْأَرْضِ هَوْنًا وَإِذَا خَاطَبَهُمُ الْجَاهِلُونَ قَالُوا سَلَامًا Translation: “And the servants of the Most Gracious are those who walk upon the earth in humility, and when the ignorant address them [harshly], they say [words of] peace” Also, in Chapter 28, verse 55: وَإِذَا سَمِعُوا اللَّغْوَ أَعْرَضُوا عَنْهُ وَقَالُوا لَنَا أَعْمَالُنَا وَلَكُمْ أَعْمَالُكُمْ سَلَامٌ عَلَيْكُمْ لَا نَبْتَغِي الْجَاهِلِينَ Translaton: And when they hear ill speech, they turn away from it and say, "For us are our deeds, and for you are your deeds. Peace will be upon you; we seek not the ignorant." So, Kindly spare me your preaching about proper manners…I think my manners are fine…they’re just different than yours. Also, you don't need to tell me how we could have been meant to be together or how, according to your judgement, I’m limiting my chances and you are considered a missed opportunity! There are no missed opportunities… Like the great companion Omar Ibn AL Khattab said: “we run away from the fate of Allah…to the fate of Allah”. If I were to tell the stories of my previous marriages, you’d be surprised how we ended up being together…you’d be even more surprised how both marriages ended up in a divorce. If it’s really meant and predestined to happen…it will happen. And Please… Spare me the need to explain or justify why I may not be interested in your profile. With all due respect, I don’t think you feel obligated to respond to every interest or every message you receive or feel obligated to justify yourself why you are not interested…Or Do You??!** ************************************************************************************************************
Mario
77 • Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada
Seeking: Female 40 - 55
Marital Status: Divorced
Looking for life partner for the entire life.
Canadian single mature man, 67 years old. I am a very kind bright man and I like to learn something new and discover new boundaries for myself. I am a compassionate and genuine individual who values meaningful connections. Family and love are at the
Hazem
54 • Hamilton, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 35 - 55
Marital Status: Divorced
Life is short,be happy and honest and kind
Time is running out, if you looking for the long relationship with honest, loyal, funny, optimistic, professional and kindly person , here I am, I like romantic time, traveling, sitting or walking at the lake, music and dancing at - nin o fiv-nin t
Nabeel
69 • Saint Catharines, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 39 - 56
Marital Status: Divorced
Educated and elegant Muslim woman is wealth
Down to earth, hardworking and adventures man. I work with animals of all kinds. Sometimes I am a nurd. I have attempted playing different kind of musical instruments. I enjoy learning different languages, painting and having good time with visiting new places and attending shows. I am thankful to all the wonderful messages from countries other than Canada, however, I prefer to communicate with Muslim ladies from Ontario, Canada.
Clint
44 • Gander, Newfoundland & Labrador, Canada
Seeking: Female 24 - 32
Marital Status: Divorced
Looking for a lifetime partner..
I’m a hard working loving man who wants a family and a lifetime partner. So I will say my life is quite complicated right now. I have been separated now about 6 months. She is Filipino and we have a 1 year old together.. unfortunately she has some mental problems… I did find this out early but she was already pregnant so I tried my best to make it work. I was hoping once we got to Canada she would get help … maybe take medication…. Unfortunately I was wrong . Now she left… made up so many lies about me to the police. We are going to court which is fine because I done nothing but I’m losing money for lawyers etc. she will probably end up deported… but I have no idea what her status is … she came on a visitor visa which has expired. She has violent outbursts, screams at me, throws things… then she will proceed to cry under the bed for hours. Before anyone asks no I did not cheat I’m a very loyal man.
Mohammed
44 • Windsor, Ontario, Canada
Seeking: Female 25 - 35
Marital Status: Divorced
Kind, wise and caring person.
I’m a divorced father of a child! Looking to form a beautiful family to set an example to my daughter of what me and her mother couldn't achieve. My daughter has no siblings and the best inheritance is good siblings. I love kids so much I could spend

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