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Kader
70 Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 30 - 45
Something intriguing in my profile has raised your interest or curiosity and now you would like to know more about me. That is good. Since this application's template offers only a limited format for basic information in a profile, I have added more unedited, random, and relevant details to help you decide whether we have the fundamental pillars upon which to build a relationship. If you think we have potential, I would like you to message me so we can explore further if we are compatible. When we exchange messages, we will learn about our respective ethics, personalities, and expectations necessary for a healthy and enduring relationship. If we share values and interests and are both comfortable with each other, we can do video chats. Assuming we are both happy after seeing each other in videos, we can arrange to meet in person. With a face-to-face meeting, we can address any questions and see how we actually interact with each other. If we are both satisfied, we can plan our future together. That is how I suggest we proceed. But first things first. Now, allow me to tell you more about myself. I was married for many years before and understand the joys and challenges of marital life. My late wife was not only my life partner but also my best friend. Because of that amazing experience, I have missed being married. Another rewarding life experience is that I am well-traveled and proficient in many foreign languages. As a result, I have met a variety of people from across the globe and am accustomed to other cultures, religions, and ways of life. For sure, traveling, studying, and living in many countries allowed me to broaden my perspective in so many ways..However, it was not all about fun and adventures, I was also laying the foundations for my future. Through hard work and smart decisions, I have built a comfortable life and now have nearly everything I need. Praise Allah! Beyond personal achievements and life experiences, what about my character, personality, and moral values? People who have known me for years tell me I am a good person. They care about me, accept my shortcomings, and respect me. With some of them, I have a deeper friendship. They find me trustworthy and knowledgeable and seek my advice or help on many business and personal matters. Others consider me ethical, humble, and humorous (when appropriate). Great friends make life more enjoyable. In general, I trust people until they repeatedly demonstrate they do not deserve such privilege. I like people to treat me as nice as I treat them. I do not like lies, hidden agendas, taken for granted, selfishness, games, gossip, and secrets between husband and wife. I try to be loyal and dependable to my close friends and strive to keep a healthy relationship with them. However, I reserve the best for the special woman in my life. With her, I cultivate and maintain a special relationship. She is my priority, With her, I am totally committed, attentive, affectionate, generous, loyal, protective, and do my utmost to honor my promises to her. Of course, when it is necessary to lead or be firm in some areas, I will do so.  I have been searching for a compatible partner. While looking, I noticed most women initially focus on the man's appearance and age. Given this reality, whether through my photos or in person, some consider me handsome. I am also told I look much younger than my age. I also feel younger too. I am a former soccer player and for years I did swimming too. In addition, I have also adopted a healthy lifestyle as I do not smoke, drink, or do drugs. I eat healthy and halal. So physically and mentally, it feels like I am in my 40s. More importantly, I think and act accordingly. I am active and productive. However, if you like who I am, yet are concerned about my age, you should not. Why? It is not relevant, especially in my case. Will the relationship work with an age gap? Some relationships do. Who said that? Experts, such as psychologists, psychiatrists, and other professionals have studied the subject for decades and determined that relationships succeed or fail, not because of the age difference, but because of other factors, such as infidelity, lack of respect, neglect, different expectations, or constant arguing and fighting about other issues. Furthermore, to support such findings is that in some countries, the divorce rate exceeds 60%. Research has also shown most couples who had separated were close to each other in age! Even more revealing is that the couple's age was not cited among the top 10 reasons people dissolved their marriage. These are facts backed by empirical statistics that scientific research has documented. Given this perspective, age is not as important as contemporary society has made it to be. But things are slowly changing. Today we see many older women having relationships with younger men and vice versa. Incidentally, this is not new. Our Prophet, Peace Be Upon Him, had married older and younger women and treated them all well. Thus, there are precedents in Islamic history, it has been a Muslim tradition. Just to be clear, this point is about age difference between partners, not polygamy which I do not practice nor want. Regardless of science and history, I believe that if a man and a woman: 1. Understand each other well   2. Truly love each other 3. Communicate freely and honestly 4. Have reasonable expectations about each other 5. Enjoy mutual respect and support 6. Resolve their conflicts lovingly and fairly They are most likely to succeed in building a happy, healthy, and enduring marriage. I understand human psychology and how relationships work. In addition, I have most of the qualities that many women desire and have been ready for a serious relationship. However, I have not found a compatible woman. I am not looking for perfection. So what am I seeking then? The next section explains that. Note: My profile has been written in English. Its translation into other languages may not be accurate. If something is unclear or missing, please ask questions. I also speak Arabic, French, and Spanish.
Emad
24 Seattle, Washington, United States
Seeking: Female 18 - 30
Nizam
70 Schenectady, New York, United States
Seeking: Female 41 - 58
I am a simple person with normal behavior. I am of normal body structure (height 5'5'', weight 57 kg). I maintain a healthy life, rarely visit a doctor, and take less medication. I lead a very simple life and food habit. I am: quiet, modest, rational, honest, benevolent, affectionate, unselfish, with good morals, wishing goodness for the people/world. I am a professional with a BS in Mechanical Engineering and worked as a Project Engineer in Petroleum Industries. Now I am 70 years old and retired. I live on my savings and investments. I have two sons: both are highly educated, highly placed, and both are married. My hobby: playing bridge card games, Some outings. What I dislike: lies, cheating, dishonesty, injustice, arrogance, cruelty, racism, wastage, irrationality, irrational luxury. What I watch on TV: news, movies, scientific research, historical stories Where do I live: I live in the US. However, I would like to visit Bangladesh every year (for some months). How do I pass time: prepare food, take care of my things, homekeeping, car care , maintaining civil things, researching my investments, talking over the phone to friends and relatives, watching TV, listening to music, planning future actions, etc. I was born and raised in Bangladesh (East Indian Subcontinent). So, I am accustomed to Bangladeshi culture. However, I lived many years in the Middle East, USA, and ultimately became a US citizen . My wife deserted me in 2011 while we were living with our younger son (who was a graduate student). Since then, I  have been giving accompanying to my unmarried son so that he does not become alone and derailed. Now he is married and well established, and he is going to start his own family. So, it is now time for me to seek a partner and start a new conjugal life.