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ABDULLAH
46 Newark, Delaware, United States
Seeking: Female 26 - 35
Hair color: Grey / White
I do not understand why majority of females want an exclusive and imbalanced relationship. They want to own you, your time and your resources in return for what? Once kids are in the picture, they want to dictate you and emotionally blackmail you through the kids. What a male gets out of marriage except more and more responsibilities and lectures from different sides? Females between the age of 20 – 40 think that everything evolve around them. All men are fools running after “one thing”. Once kids are entered in the teenage the motherly love requires them to take care of the kids. This is acceptable but now a male becomes just a dog of the house. This attitude leads to a divorce. Now these 30 – 50 females start to look for another toy to be owned and controlled. Now the pool of men in that age to be controlled has decreased significantly. They want to have a single or divorced man which are not available because first these males have an option to marry a single or a divorced girl without kids. Many girls from back home are willing and eager to go for that option. Second, there are not many men in that age group available. Third, if Chinese law, Indian customs and Muslim countries priorities have not created too many males in these countries, world would have had at least 5% more females. Still many countries have more female population as compared to males. One marriage laws in many countries leads to relationships outside of formal commitments. Research shows that 20 – 25 percent men cheat and 10 -15 percent of women cheat. As a result, open relationships are gaining popularity in so called developed world. A Muslim is not allowed to go down that route because of the religious restrictions. Therefore, men living in these countries are hostage by dominating females who cannot accept western options and do not follow Islamic rules. These females once divorced, they continue to live as single parent for whole life but do not accept to be a second wife. No worries there are 15% - 30% single mothers in Western World, you would be just one more.
C. Hassan
74 Richmond, Virginia, United States
Seeking: Female 50 - 73
Hair color: Grey / White
Communication is extremely important for building trust. I am a firm believer in the concept of disclose, discuss and then decide. Insha’Allaah, I will try to cultivate trust, and understanding at the individual, family and community level for marriage. I am suggesting that we have a clearly stated vision of what we want in your life/marriage. I need someone who is going in the same direction however, not necessarily at the same level of intensity. I hope that you will communicate some of your expectations for marriage as I am doing, Insha’Allaah. Our values need to be aligned. In other words, you may fast on Mondays and Thursdays and I may fast only the 15th of every month. Moreover, we are still fasting extra days. Taking into account our age/experience we can reevaluate the social realities/values of today, with the Sunnah as a template. I feel we need to redefine marriage as a give and take relationship, a collaborative partnership that is not based on social exchanges. I would need your help in developing and creating several projects (at whatever level of participation you feel comfortable), for the Ummah. I feel it is necessary for us to cultivate shared interest and shared values consequently providing a stronger marriage bond. My body weight varies between 165 to 168 lbs. I also participate in activities that requires medium to heavy work outdoors. I am one of several Brothers who maintain a Muslim cemetery. Teaching was and is my profession. I taught Computer Aided Drafting at the high school level. Insha'Allaah I plan to get back into the teaching arena within two years. it is true that I am retired....however none of the shahabah ever retired and they had many more challenges than I have or had. I benefit from being creative using ceramics or wood products/projects, Marriage is extremely important to me. As a Muslim I know marriage is spelled out defined, however I feel that it is important to front load the goals and the values to see at what level we are in alignment. Yes there are challenges, disappointments, fitnah. My values are who I am and what I spend my time doing. I want to know what you really want in/out of a marriage bond and perhaps to know your reasons why. I regularly reflect on what I have accomplished and begin to plan what I need to do for the next day. I try to observe as many of the tenets of our Deen as possible.
ikbar
59 Tampa, Florida, United States
Seeking: Female 35 - 53
Hair color: Grey / White

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