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Maja
45 • Washington, District of Columbia, United States
Seeking: Male 40 - 50
Smoke: Don't smoke
Trying this out
I'm newly looking for a partner after a lengthy marriage that ended 4 years ago. I have adult children who are working professionals or in college. I'm well-traveled and cultured. I enjoy cooking, staying fit, and being outdoors during warmer seasons.
Muslima
40 • Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Male 35 - 45
Smoke: Don't smoke
Be Good. Do Good.
I've always had an incredible passion for living life to its fullest. I always strive to believe in the good within everyone. I'm straightforward about my needs, and honest when I feel hurt. I am looking for an equally positive partner who loves to try new experiences and is a great and open communicator.
Modesty
57 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Male 55 - 65
Smoke: Don't smoke
Looking for a brother who’s serious about marriage
Very loving and compassionate person. Humble and modest. Love Allah SWT and our Prophet PBUH. Enjoy water activities, horseback riding, reading, attending Islamic events. I’ve made Umrah and looking forward to making Hajj with my husband. Enjoy learning more about our Deen. Studying Arabic. Make ALL of my prayers, volunteers in the masjids.
Karen
23 • Houston, Texas, United States
Seeking: Male 22 - 40
Smoke: Don't smoke
Hello, let me figure out if you’re my soulmate
My name is Karen I’m 23, I’m from Mexico and looking for my soulmate to marry him, Im physical therapist but no working for now. Im not muslim but I will marry with a middle eastern or asian man. I prefer usa or canada to settle down! I can travel to USA because I have my visa🤭
Brooke
39 • Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Female 25 - 40
Smoke: Don't smoke
Sister-Wife Search
Salaam! I’m married to a beautiful, loyal, handsome, Allah loving man who is protective, kind, caring, and emotionally intelligent. We are ready to add a second wife to our family. I'm very feminine, submissive, loving, caring and kind. Being a nurse, I love to nurture my family. I'm soft-spoken, non-confrontational, love to laugh, and want a sister who I can love and become best friends with. Let's cook together, travel together, dress up together, pray together, and be obedient to our husbands together. If the right fit, he will love us both the same and it is an amazing love.
Madeline
50 • Dayton, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Male 40 - 51
Smoke: Don't smoke
striving to be upright
I love the water 💦 like swimming. I also enjoy cooking I just converted to Islam all praises are due to allah. I enjoy comedy and I want a friend I can grow with poetry. I eventually want to marry and make a great life with someone.fum loving I don't play games with any feelings I work hard hope you approve.
Aiesha
50 • Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking: Male 35 - 65
Smoke: Don't smoke
SEEKING MY HUSBAND ONLY..MUST HAVE PICTURES
SEEKING MARRIAGE ONLY -not interested in dating or being friends -I am a AMERICAN CITIZEN Humble Respectful Honest -Can’t say too much or we won’t have nothing to talk about (STOP ASKING ME TO CALL U ON WHATSAPP WITHIN MINS OF TALKING saying it’s better n more simple)
Anahi
25 • Saint Louis, Missouri, United States
Seeking: Male 26 - 41
Smoke: Don't smoke
I'm learning English. I like shopping, reading, personal care, traveling, doing new things, gym, skating, golf, I like nature, do new things, discovering new restaurants, discovering new places, golf, horseback, spa etc. I like appointments with effort and being detailed.
morgan
34 • Fort Worth, Texas, United States
Seeking: Male 32 - 47
Smoke: Don't smoke
Hey There !
My plans for life are to love, learn, develop and enjoy. Everything that life gives us, delicious food, drinks, training, playing games, communicating with children and of course love. There are a few more plans, but I would talk about it in a personal dialogue, are you planning your future?
Gift
33 • Miami, Florida, United States
Seeking: Male 47 - 70
Smoke: Don't smoke
A sweet diva in search of my Mr Right...
I am a very easy going and laid back kinda girl and I will be open about anything so long as we are on the same page. at this point in my life I am ready to meet the man that is also ready to build a home to settle down with. You can exchange contacts to talk more if interested. I love love and would want to be loved. xx
Sana
22 • Dallas, Texas, United States
Seeking: Male 21 - 30
Smoke: Don't smoke
I’m her oldest sister I live in LA, my sister is currently living in PA. I am looking for someone in the United States that I can match my sister with, we’re looking for a honest family man! DONT send me a message if you are over the age of 34!! I’m actually serious about finding someone if your here to waste my time. don’t message me at all. Not looking for anyone who has kids! I’m a hair stylist along with a nail tech! I do bridal work on the side
Tammy
51 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Male 46 - 59
Smoke: Don't smoke
I am an single woman looking for my soulmate,
I am self employed for 20 years, I have 3 business locations , in fashion and home Decor, I work a lot, I would like to settle down with an special person and eventually get married ,if u do not have an picture attached to your profile, or your not an member,I will not respond to messages, I am unable to read messages if your not an member,
Pretty
58 • Duluth, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Male 51 - 64
Smoke: Don't smoke
2nd Chance
An independent healthy working woman. I am in verge of being an empty nester. Which can be scary. I do not look my age. Healthy living is very important to me. I’m very active and happy with my independence life. I have been divorced over a decade, raising my children was my only focus. Now that they all graduated from college, I believe it is time for me to find a compagnon, someone who can tolerate me and that I can tolerate.
Brittani
35 • Laurel, Maryland, United States
Seeking: Male 25 - 80
Smoke: Don't smoke
Looking for a strong support system …..
I AM INCARCERATED please be mindful of this I have made some mistakes and I am willing to tell you all about it if you are interested…. I am still a beautiful women who’s looking for someone who can support my growth and journey in Islam. Who can lead and provide, I am open to all possible outcomes ..
Yusraa
35 • Austin, Texas, United States
Seeking: Male 32 - 45
Smoke: Don't smoke
Verily, after hardship there is relief/ease…
I’m new to the Austin, TX area-relocated from South Carolina but I grew up in Brooklyn, NY. I have a Bachelor’s in Business Administration, and am an Executive Assistant for a nonprofit organization. I have three children from my only marriage. Open to having more with the right husband. I am not interested in being a co-wife or participating in polygyny.
Fatiha
30 • Euclid, Ohio, United States
Seeking: Male 29 - 48
Smoke: Don't smoke
Seeking genuine connection and marriage
The interest and gaze of men arent my motivations or desires, I am on this website because my heart seeks a man who loves Allah and who takes marriage and family very serious, which is a rarity in these hard times. I am not rushing to be married but I am serious and focused as to not waste time on the wrong person. May Allah guide us, as He is kind and just, on our journeys to finding amazing partners.
Halleema
49 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Male 39 - 56
Smoke: Don't smoke
Ms. Munoz
Asaalaam Alaikum name is Halleema. I'm a mother, friend, and teacher. I was born Muslim and love this deen. I enjoy traveling, eating out, shopping, reading, nature and gardening. I'm willing share more about myself once I find someone who is serious about marriage and have a connection with.
Tatala
41 • Boston, Massachusetts, United States
Seeking: Male 35 - 50
Smoke: Don't smoke
Pretty Brown Sugar
Hi I'm Tatala, I have honey dark brown skin, I'm 5''6 I have a beautiful petite on the top and curvy on the bottom. I'm in the medical field but was also looking for a fun job to make $$. I'm Latin speak Spanish, I will be driving again soon, depending on how this goes. If you'd like to meet,
Madinah
69 • East Hartford, Connecticut, United States
Seeking: Male 60 - 65
Smoke: Don't smoke
I first remind myself I then share with another
Google my name Vil-Madinah Gharib Biography: Vil-Madinah Gharib is the author and illustrator of The Book of Noble Poems and Short Stories ISBN 1-4208-7333-4. She is honored as a Registered U.S. Department of State Artist and proud to be an Ambas
Mona
47 • Hoover, Alabama, United States
Seeking: Male 43 - 48
Smoke: Don't smoke
Give respect & get respect .
Open minded/ Caring / Enjoy Outdoors/Love Travelling/Gym Going /Foodie /Appreciate Little Things In Life /No Drama Queen /Easy Going /Liberal / Like To Keep A Good Balance Between East & West Culture. No Relationship Without communication .
Hauwa
48 • Tacoma, Washington, United States
Seeking: Male 45 - 99
Smoke: Don't smoke
My story is filled with broken pieces.
My story is filled with broken pieces, terrible choices and ugly truths. But it is also filled with major comebacks, peace in my heart and grace that saved my life. I have been cheated on, lied to, left for someone else, dropped without explanation etc etc BUT I am still trying to love like I have never been hurt before. You can love me or not, and if I love you, I do it with all my heart!! I make no apologies for the way I am. I am not the most beautiful woman in the world, but I am me. I love food. I have curves. I have scars because I have a history. Some people love me, some like me and some don't. I have done a lot of good and I have done some bad. I sometimes go without make up and sometimes don't get my hair done. I am random and silly, but loving. I don't pretend to be someone I am not. I am who I am!
Noor
40 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Male 30 - 45
Smoke: Don't smoke
Noor 2 your ♥️. Are you the one?
***I'm only considering serious prospects from the US, UAE nationals exception on a one to one basis.*** I am a compassionate, kind, loyal woman with a fervor for life and laughter. I strive to constantly enrich my life every day. I've got a passion for the Arts (opera, ballet, theater, Broadway etc.) horse back riding and travel. I like planning and going on adventures and excursions! I am an avid swimmer- I love the beach/ocean and I like water related activities: snorkeling, scuba, white water rafting, etc. Or I can just linger on the beach for hours watching the waves crash, washing away any troubles. God, career & family.. life is quite busy. I am very particular with whom I correspond with and date- I know what I want and what I'm looking for. I hope you know what you’re looking for too :) Sinatra, Andy Williams, Adele, Bryan Adams, Sting, Amr Diab, Francis Cabrel... This is what I am looking for: "Je t'aimais, je t'aime, je t'aimerai".... ***I'm only considering serious prospects from the US, brothers. ***
reyna
61 • San Diego, California, United States
Seeking: Male 55 - 65
Smoke: Don't smoke
only monogamous practicing Muslims pls non smoker
mexican american converted into Islam 8 years ago divorced from california USA honest willing and eager to learn more and understand Islam as much as possible I like healthy food vegetarian organic love hiking nature walks beach I consider myself a good listener love music ocasional diner Gardening and good company also love dogs 🐶 I have one which I love he is so cute there is more about me any questions just ask WARNING:**** Message to Scammers with fake profiles, Gold Diggers and USERS. "Be ready to do a voice call followed by a live video call ( NOT PRE - RECORDED VIDEO CALLs ) This is to verify your true identity. Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. *** Thanks to the user who invited me to copy and paste this notice. Safety Tip - Beware of fake webcams Some scammers from Ghana, Nigeria, Russia or other countries will stream a fake webcam stream when you chat with them on webcam. They do this by using a pre-recorded video that appears as if they are the person on the other end of the webcam. In order to protect yourself from fake web cams ask the person to verify that they are not a recording by standing up, waving, holding up a hand or writing a message on a piece of paper and holding it for you to see. If the person is real they should be able to obey your requests in real time. If the webcam is fake they will be unable to do any of these things in real time. WARNING:**** Message to Scammers with fake profiles, Gold Diggers and USERS. "Be ready to do a voice call followed by a live video call ( NOT PRE - RECORDED VIDEO CALLs ) This is to verify your true identity. Any institutions or individuals using this site or any of its associated sites for studies, projects, advertising, sales, or any other reason-you DO NOT have permission to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal ramifications. *** It is recommended that other members post a similar notice. *** Thanks to the user who invited me to copy and paste this notice. Safety Tip - Beware of fake webcams Some scammers from Ghana, Nigeria, Russia or other countries will stream a fake webcam stream when you chat with them on webcam. They do this by using a pre-recorded video that appears as if they are the person on the other end of the webcam. In order to protect yourself from fake web cams ask the person to verify that they are not a recording by standing up, waving, holding up a hand or writing a message on a piece of paper and holding it for you to see. If the person is real they should be able to obey your requests in real time. If the webcam is fake they will be unable to do any of these things in real time.
Ghaniyyah
52 • Durham, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Male 33 - 55
Smoke: Don't smoke
A stranger seeking a stranger.
The greatest gift that Allah has given me is to guide me to this beautiful religion with understanding. I love this deen and being Muslim more than anything else. I am a revert of 31 years. I love Allah and His Messenger (salallahu alaihi wa salaam) and I love to study this religion. I try to the best of my ability to adhere to what the Messenger of Allah has taught, and the generation after him, and the generation after them etc. I am not just satisfied with saying that I am Muslim. I am constantly reflecting on my character and how I can improve myself. You will find me to be one who is very humble, sincere, and who likes simplicity and peace. I love to laugh (in moderation) and can be playful at times. I am an intellectual at heart and love talking about Islam as well as some worldly affairs. Those that know me say that I am a sweet person with a beautiful personality. I try to be balanced when it comes to this way of life because the Messenger Salallahu alaihi wa salaam said to take the middle course but also strive to as near to perfection as we can. No matter what I am going through, I always want good for my Muslim brothers and sisters. We are living in the Last Days so I have been thinking about my life a lot and right now I just want to be a good Muslim, and mother, and a wife (if Allah wills) and hopefully with that, Allah will allow me to enter into Jannah. I am loving, kind, and caring. I am a bit shy when meeting new people. I try to see life with a "half full" attitude and understand Allah's qadr. Seeking an education is important to me right now but I still like to sew, and I love to cook, and it especially makes me happy cooking for my family because I know that they like it and there is barakah in it. I love reading and writing (especially poetry). I love traveling, I paint, I love to garden and observe the beautiful things that Allah has created. I am a bit of a homebody, but I occasionally go out to be amongst the Ummah. I still feel that the best place for the Muslim woman is in the home.
Ebtisam
52 • Allentown, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Male 38 - 51
Smoke: Don't smoke
WHAT YOU ARE SEEKING IS ALSO SEEKING YOU! U.S ONLY
PLEASE DON'T EMAIL ME IF YOU DON'T LIVE IN THE UNITED STATES! ONLY U.S. RESIDENTS. PLEASE HAVE A PICTURE UP. Hi there! Where to start? This is our life. Trying to find my naseeb, just like you. You read a hundred apps and what made you stop here? Come on in. Take a chance. I have so much to offer. I love to laugh and smile and you will always catch me doing that! This little box won't tell you about the size of my heart or how ticklish i am or how committed i am to you once i get to know you. It is all about chances. I love life and it shows. Always try to stay happy and smile, skip along the road of life. A dreamer. I would love to have a family one day, inshallah. Praying to God helps. I work as a dental hygienist and i am driven. I would give up my career though for a family. I am looking for a friend within a husband. Being able to talk is important. Being respectful, loyal, trustworthy, fun and loveable is something you will get with you and I. I always have hope and never give up. I am not looking for just any man. He will know if he's the one by the grace of God's help. I know you are out there and i continue to make dua that God one day brings us to each other. Take the first step. Hope to hear from you soon, inshallah. Look for hints to get in touch with me! Ha ha hotmail JUST U.S. RESIDENTS ONLY. AGE PREFERENCE ONLY
Atiya
48 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Male 34 - 50
Smoke: Don't smoke
I'm 41yrs.
Down to earth Muslimah who is Islamically conscious, self aware, and outgoing is looking for that special someone to inshaallah become my partner/ husband. Family centered with a strong sense of community. My goal is to establish an Islamic philanthropic/ venture capitalist organization which will reinvest into the social & economic structures for a Healthy Muslim Community. I am a go getter and I strive to think BIG! I love art and it's many forms. I like to try new things and I'm very adventurous. I've been told that I'm pretty funny/ humorous. I prefer authentic & genuine relationships. Happy with the woman that I am and consistently focused on self improvement. Alhamdulilah!
Haya
43 • Westfield, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Male 40 - 53
Smoke: Don't smoke
🇺🇸 ONLY! I am 52 profile pic Dec 2024 👀👇
Lebanese / French Athletic kind, caring non-smoker non-drinker looking for same NO MARRIED MEN! My pics have NO filters ( please don’t use filters !! OK, people won’t like this, but this is how I feel if you’re a man and you don’t go to the gym and you don’t work out and you don’t have muscles like a man should then I don’t have any respect for you Don’t tell me you don’t have time everybody can make time. I don’t wanna hear the excuse excuses, if you smoke or vape I have no respect for you. It’s a dirty habit. It’s disgusting and I don’t feel like having to be on the phone for 20 minutes and then someone tells me oh by the way I smoke don’t waste my time you need to go to the gym lift heavyweights Into health and Fitness eat healthy no junk food. I try like a bodybuilder and I need someone compatible? I’m not trying to change someone if this is not you don’t message me. My interests are family / cooking / cleaning organization/ fashion / decorating /bodybuilding / boxing /GYM/ basketball as my son plays / walks / healthy eating ( no junk no preservatives ) healthy lifestyle/ NO INTEREST : in traveling / swimming / animals / smokers / vapers / cursing / rude men / cheap men / married men/ Fat men / anorexic men / men on prescription drugs / men who yell and have anger issues / bossy men / uneducated men /
Loubna
63 • Paramus, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Male 54 - 69
Smoke: Don't smoke
63, Looking for Partner to Live Life With!
READ DESCRIPTION PLEASE: I am originally from Sale, Morocco. Came to the US in 2009. Have worked in healthcare, food services, and many other jobs. Enjoy nights out on the town, seafood, and relaxation time! Do not message me on here because I do not want to pay the membership cost. Add me on Snapchat: loubnaelm61
Khadijah-
57 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Male 50 - 62
Smoke: Don't smoke
Giving in marriage what you can’t pay for‼️
🚫NO MESSAGES OUTSIDE OF THE US PLEASE. Don’t waste our time🤲🏾‼️I’m ONLY interested in US or Canada Muslims about 50-57 years old. I am interested in courtship for marriage. I have ample family and friends‼️….I’m allergic to shellfish, but I’m a pescatarian. I fear Allah, and I’m striving to be better. I was married once for 25 years. We drifted apart. It happens. Maintain your marriage more than your fancy car, that job you’re dedicated to, or your favorite shoes…. I am respectful, attentive and a supportive wife who wants to put a smile on my husband’s face, the only cost is reciprocation. I love to smile🥰 I want a solid man’s man with a protector, maintainer, and provider’s mentality. The normal things matter with similar yet unmatchable attributes of the Prophet (PBUH). Yes I cover, but also want my future husband to know I have locs.
Fatimah
49 • Atlanta, Georgia, United States
Seeking: Male 53 - 65
Smoke: Don't smoke
Just me. Not perfect but a striver for Allah.
I believe in Allah, family, and community. I enjoy volunteering at the Masjid and attending community events. I love to do little things to make people happy. Bringing joy to a person's day just because, brings me. I enjoy walking with a loved one or just alone. I also enjoy baking,reading, as well as planning family events. I am a hopeful romantic. I believe in love plain and simple.
Mardhiya
29 • Seattle, Washington, United States
Seeking: Male 30 - 35
Smoke: Don't smoke
Hi, Well I am introverted woman, I am a homebody but can be adventurous when I have to in shaa Allah. I love nature, strolls and walking in the rain. I do meditation for solace, I am shy and not very talkative unless I'm comfortable enough. I am family oriented and I consider myself free spirit.
Zeena
43 • Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, United States
Seeking: Male 40 - 50
Smoke: Don't smoke
I am the Wali of a Muslim Sisterانا ولى اخت مسلمة
We cannot read messages from unpaid members, if you have just free membership we cannot read whatever you write. لا نستطيع قراءة اى رسائل منك ان كانت عضويتك مجانية الموقع يحجبها. فلا تؤاخذونا على عدم الرد لا نتبادل ارقام تليفونات ولا واتس آب ولا سكايب الا بعد التعارف مع ولى الامر I am the Wali for the Muslim sister described below, all communication would go through me first, she does not access the site herself. When there is a close match, In Shaa Allah, I will arrange for direct initial contact for you. Clearly serious inquiries only and please allow and be patient for some standard questions for filtering reasons. ONLY USA permanent residents and USA citizens. The sister is divorced and per custody schedule you must be close to the Philly metropolitan, she would not relocate. I will not respond to any inquiries outside of these criteria.   She does not wear Niqab, the picture is just for the profile and to protect her privacy. I also cannot read messages from unpaid members it does not appear as legible on my end. She practices the pillars of Islam, reads Quran, attends to Islamic lessons, and observe Allah in her dealings. She is respectful of the established schools of thoughts (mazahib) and does not entertain additions or personal opinions that are not founded upon Sunnah or one of those scholars' methodologies. She is attractive, fair skin colored, intelligent, curious, educated, clean, organized and respect gender roles. She is a good cook, fun, has a good sense of humor and like to spend her spare time walking in the park, reading, watching movies and entertaining guests. She is self-sufficient financially and otherwise.
Bint
20 • Dearborn, Michigan, United States
Seeking: Male 20 - 25
Smoke: Don't smoke
Seek religious mature handsome man for my daughter
Assalamu Alaikum, My name is Abdullah, and I am the father of a wonderful young woman whom we will refer to as Bint Abdullah for privacy. We are a traditional Islamic family and are looking for a suitable partner for my daughter, who shares our values. *About My Daughter:* - *Age*: Recently turned 20 years old - *Ethnicity*: Half Black, Half Puerto Rican - *Marital Status*: Never been married, no relationships prior to marriage. - *Personality*: Bubbly, comical, and soft-spoken with a strong sense of humor inherited from her parents. She is assertive and well-balanced. - *Interests and Skills*: An advanced practitioner of Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu, showcasing her physical capability and discipline. - *Religious Views*: Muslima who follows the Qur'an and Sunnah based on the understanding of the companions of the Prophet ﷺ. She values traditional roles and prefers to focus on raising a family and supporting her husband. *Family Background:* - Our family follows traditional Islamic values and the teachings of the Qur'an and Sunnah. We have raised our daughter in a home where disputes are resolved based on these principles. - Both parents are involved and supportive, ensuring a balanced upbringing.
Bas
40 • Newark, New Jersey, United States
Seeking: Male 38 - 51
Smoke: Don't smoke
Please only if ur in the USA….
Allah knows best…..I’m not looking to date it’s a lot of men up who is not Muslim idk how their account even got approved don’t come in my inbox with nonsense don’t give me ur What’s App number and only number u can have is my Wali…U will automatically be block if u come in my inbox will hello hey what’s up etc etc….As Salaam Alaikum should be the first thing!!!!!!!
Shy
50 • Durham, North Carolina, United States
Seeking: Male 45 - 56
Smoke: Don't smoke
INFJ seeking other intuitive thinker feeler types.
Laid back , somewhat reserved Muslimah. Enjoys Nature but .......Bugs EXCLUDED lol . Same with Animals kind of. I respect them/ Their right to be but... I'm not an animal person. I think my aversion to wild and domesticated animals likely comes from the fact that I'm unable to VERBALLY communicate with them (shrugs). That said.. I don't want any harm to come to them. I'd never mistreat one. Or watch someone mistreat one without voicing opposition. Just not an ideal use of time for me to make myself the care taker of (animals), independent a farm (that is). lol. Anyhow.... Moving on, The kind of nature i dig MOST would be more like (Bodies of water, flowers, Sunshine, fresh air, Scenic views etc). Those things that both energize me as well as make me introspective. Things like, Standing at the mouth of a shore......... Looking out into the magnificence of /the vastness of an Ocean. Thing like those that make me reflect on my place , My coming, My purpose, My deeds, etc. Allahu Akbar. I dig laughter, relaxed and comfortable spaces. Family gatherings, as well as alone time. Time to sit and listen to the chatter of my own mind. To ponder ideas, correct my thoughts about something i may have wrongly thought previously etc. Things that cause me to FEEL in general are often things that I gravitate toward.. I could laugh (out loud) at a good joke 1 minute, But in seconds be reduced to tears at an emotionally heart tugging occurrence. Don t worry.... though I AM AWARE at how UNSTABLE that sounds....... lol.... I promise , its less about instability and more about living life authentically! (Maturity) has shown me that not masking feelings under layers of bravado/ inability to be vulnerable (when vulnerability is due) is better than saving face. I've come to understand that it just works out better for all involved when one chooses to be honest and genuine about feelings, / intent etc. (Assuming BOTH ppl are operating in that state of openness). it saves so much valuable time and eliminates so much more unnecessary posturing. Other things I like doing are varied types of Charity.. At the Masjid, On my own, With my family, etc. I genuinely care about ppl and don't well tolerate those who DONT care about (others). I like ppl who try just as hard as I do to Make others feel as if they are WELCOMED, as apposed to just being TOLERATED. I tend to dislike classist mind sets, and ppl who ONLY see the value in treating ppl who are financially similar to (themselves) with kindness/ dignity/ and respect. If a person knows enough to be nice to the CEO but does Not know enough to know that he should also be nice to the man on the street/ or other ppl who he believes may not matter, then, it rubs me wrong. Some other (random) things I like are, 1. to be able to hear good/intellectual conversations on varied topics (Even if it isn't me having them, and I'm only in earshot). The emergence of the Podcast Genre helps me get that in these days when i find that I'm lacking those experiences in every day real life. 2. I like MANY artsy things / ppl. (Examples) Love poetry and prose! Old English even, lol. 3. Beautifying my/ others surroundings. (Sometimes I do that for free other times I charge. Its work but then again it ISNT because i love to do it so much). I Also like listening to lectures......... / reading the stories of the prophets / companions of the prophets , and gaining insight/ inspiration at the way they lived their lives. I could probably say more but Im not here to write a book lol. Sooooo.... If any of this sounds like im your fellow conscripted soldier then.... don't be shy :) . P.S. please attach a pic to your profile. at LEAST 1. I'm Niqabi myself, but for fairness I included a pic. I'm not asking for anything I wouldn't do myself. If this is not your choice. I understand, but please also understand if I'd rather not entertain you. P.S.S. If YOU don't have a subscription and I don't have a subscription, it isn't likely that we will be able to talk. I do NOT HAVE Wattsapp and Do NOT want it. so that's not an option. Please do not fill up my inbox with messages that i can not read because they are blocked due to lack of subscription and or 1 word messages in the dozens that have to be deciphered in order to make 1 message. Thanks in advance for understanding. May Allah give you the BEST of this day/night, keeping away all harm. Amin.

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